Saturday, April 30, 2005

How to Meet Non-Pros

(Just got back from a trip to Argentina--this is an Asian blog, but wow, what a good time there!)

The bars in the Philippines and Thailand, the massage joints in Tokyo, the pink light districts in Korea, all are great for meeting willing partners. But I do get asked how to meet "regular" girls. And yes, some girls do hang out where they can meet foreigners. White Beach in Okinawa is a great example of that. But other places, which have a reputation for being able to meet non-pros, really aren't that good. Spasso's in Bangkok, has that reputation, but in reality, almost all the girls there are expensive free-lancers.

Everywhere I go in Asia, I find non-pros (oh, I like to use the pros, too). How? By writing them first on the internet. In Thailand, i had great luck with Matematcher.com, but now that is defunct. So I switched over to Adult Friendfinder. The nice thing about Adult Friendfinder is that 75% of the women there just want a good time. And I have met a number of couples who want to play with a foreigner. Surprisingly, in each case, it was to have the wife have sex with a foreigner while the husband just watches. (Well, in one case in Manila, the husband could no longer get an erection because of surgery, so he was just giving his wife an opportunity to get laid.) I have been very successful with MateMatcher and Adult Friendfinder. in Japan, Thailand, Korea, the Philippines, and China.

OK, there is a difference. Unless you are a young good-looking stud, you might not get responses from most of the girls you select if you only select young babes, especially in Japan and Korea. But if you are older (as I am) and you select girls a little older or couples, then you should get great results. But in the Philippines most of all, and in Thailand as well, many more young girls will respond to an older guys e-mails.

Over the last year, I have hooked up with 6 couples in Asia and 16 girls through Adult Friendfinder. It actually could be more, but when I am in Thailand, I regularly spend the night four girls (3 from AFF and one from MateMatcher) so I don't have much time to meet the new ones.

If you are really looking for a girlfriend, you can find them in AFF as well (you can tell by the ad if they just want to play or are looking for something more. However, if you are lookign for that, you might want to try AsianFriendFinder or FilipinoFriendfinder. I really have not had any experience with the first, but the second one is great. Ihave a buddy who married a real nice girl through that site.

The good thing about the Friendfinder network is that you can join for free. If you are going to send a million e-mails and agressively pursue hooking up, you should join, but the basic ad is free.

There are more sites like Worldwidelove.net, and if you can speak the language, chat rooms abound. But my best advice for finding non-pros is to get onlien before you go and arrange to meet upon your arrival.

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